Welcome

Suffering: The challenge of being

Life can be difficult and is often painful. I am honored to work with you and committed to being there as you investigate suffering and explore how to make change. Cultivating greater awareness, emotional resilience and self-compassion begins with truly feeling your feelings–this is the challenge of being. As a trauma-informed, relational therapist I prioritize safety and find meaning in the way our working relationship reveals underlying psychic patterns.

Whole-hearted effort: Practice being human

There is nothing wrong with you, and you may want to make a few improvements (paraphrasing Zen teacher Suzuki Roshi). In psychotherapy you can practice with your whole self; however complicated, confusing, wounded or hopeless that self may feel at times. In this transformative space everything is welcome: shame, sorrow, joy, bewilderment, grief, uncertainty. The entire spectrum of dark and light aspects of self are vital elements of our shared humanity.

Cultivating compassion: Making the unconscious conscious

In therapy we’ll explore how you first learned love, identity, boundaries and connection with others. Each of us is unique: in emotions, bodies and minds, every person experiences the world through a singular lens. Our reality is profoundly shaped by the body, culture, class and family system in which we were born and raised. By patiently bringing curiosity to how you internally relate to yourself and the world at large, compassionate psychotherapy is an enlivening, pragmatic and liberatory practice.

Services Offered

Healing soul wounds begins by asking for help and not feeling alone with the weight of the world. It is a gift to be alive and an honor to accompany you in this way.

Individual Therapy

Finding yourself anew by turning toward what is difficult, gathering resources and internalizing new coping strategies.

Relationship Counseling

Intimate relationships (of any type) are where we act out our attachment styles and can see most clearly how our desire to be loved is complicated by our histories. My counseling aims to encourage seeing your relationship as a two-person (or more) system where each partner’s needs can be more clearly understood. In this empathic space, it’s possible to build more secure functioning and mutual respect for the rich differences that make you each unique.

Regular meetings either in person at my office or via telehealth.

About Me

Hi, I’m Qayyum (pronounced “kai-yoom”)

I am a son, oldest of three brothers and husband to a contemplative artist, and raised by counterculture parents (now divorced). I’ve tried many pursuits, embodying different identities (video editor, organic farmer, Zen monk, prison and hospice volunteer, co-director of an arts community, carpenter, reading tutor, mailman) and what I’ve always been most interested in are the big questions about human life.

How can we experience love, harmony and beauty when there is so much confusion, stress and distraction? How can we be happy with ourselves when we have harsh inner critics? How do we navigate change: grief, conflict, sickness, aging and death?

I view psychotherapy as a relationship where I accompany you in exploring your life. I am deeply present with you in the landscape of inquiry as we feel what it’s like to be you in all your complexity.

I have been a Buddhist meditator for over 25 years and believe in the wisdom of the body as a site of healing and self-knowledge. I have an abiding faith in each person’s integrity, wholeness, and basic goodness.

Get Started

If you feel ready to begin exploring together in therapy, let’s get started.

I offer a complimentary 15 minute phone consultation.

We can discuss what you are seeking and I can answer questions that you may have.

I look forward to hearing from you.

628-265-3290

qayyumjohnson@gmail.com

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